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Decent People

Surrounding Yourself with Decent people

If you are concerned that your child develops strong and positive relationships then it is important that you model this kind of dynamic. Your kids learn from you. If you go out with friends and return talking about crazy stories, unhappiness, and gossiping, your kids will think that this is a key part of friendship and time away from family. Instead, cultivate positive friendships and make sure that you are having good conversations about, as well as around, your children and your spouse.

Follow your path and bring your friends and children along

Follow your path and bring your friends and children along

Sometimes we hold on to friends because they remind us of our crazy past, they bring drama to our lives  or they uplift our seemingly boring life because their life is so much more complicated than ours; be careful!  Having decent people in your life is rewarding because they will support you and remind you of your values when the going gets tough.

Don’t worry, you don’t have to dump your close long-time friends because they are dramatic or have ‘unhealthy’ lives. The main part of friendship is to be compassionate and giving.  Just make sure you don’t feed their bad habits or condone their lifestyle.

Decent people, at times, may seem hard to find or slightly boring (compare to your ex-boyfriends, best girlfriend, who lives out of a shoe box, and sells macaroni necklaces for a living and is a professional pole dancer) but strong friends that support you will be the ones to lean on and be an examples to your children.

Aligning your friends with your values may take time, but stick to your commitment because if you do then you will truly feel like a part of a community that you can look at and see your own values reflecting within.

Becoming “apparent”,

Heidi Ahrens

Yes you can still set up a Free 30 minute consultation or send me your questions heidiahrens@me.com

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